Self – Control Disappears
When your tummy intervenes and tells you that something is amiss, you are bound to have more questions than you currently do answers. That isn’t to say that these answers won’t eventually reveal themselves to you, but for now - you are feeling unsure. That emotion is reaching deep into your tummy and sending signs of imperfect intuition to your mind. It’s all gone inside of you right now - but you need to know that your angels are responsible for much of what you are feeling, and they aren’t ashamed of finding you and informing you that they are very much present. Allow it and take the time to understand where they are coming from, after all, their number one mission is to protect you.
Self-Control is Nowhere to Be Seen
If you want to know what these tummy issues are for - it’s to let you know that you lack self-control. The conclusion would be incorrect if you were to assume you were in control of every aspect of your life, and you’d be right in thinking everybody does. The difference is - the big things matter, and if you aren’t able to keep them under your own veil of control, then you’re going to find life really difficult.
Stop Saying Yes for The Sake of It
Lack of self-control starts with just saying yes to one more. Now - the real tricky part is deciphering what is meant by ‘one more.’ One more piece of cake, knowing you are watching your weight, or indeed watching what types of food you eat for health and wellbeing reasons. It’s easy to say yes, because the immediate temptation is more enticing than the long-term goal of staying well, staying healthy, and maintaining a good lifestyle. We may slip up from time to time, but if being incredibly healthy is what you’re after, then you will not appreciate your lack of self-control when you meet hurdles.
Trouble Saying No? Read On!
The other way that your self-control could be affected is your inability to say no in other ways, like the way you socialize and put having fun ahead of your responsibilities. It’s as if you totally lack the awareness that important things matter and refuse to see how you must balance it all to be a success. Fun might be something you want, but there’s no point in going after that if you are missing out on paying the bills, stocking the fridge, or seeing those home improvements first. What sort of lessons are you teaching yourself if you refuse to see anything other than easy, fluffy, and light?
If you lack self-control when it comes to speaking to people, you are in for a rude awakening. There is much more to you than meets the eye, but you like to be someone who says it how it is, deciding that holding back is not effective in good relationships. The trouble is - nobody asks for your opinion, yet you see no trouble in offering it. This can have a detrimental effect on who you are close to, as they view you no more than someone who prefers the shallow, gossipy side of life to true, loyal, quiet circles.
You Don’t See the Harm You’re Doing
Those who lack self-control are blissfully unaware of the damage they are doing to themselves. They assume they mean well, they think their decisions are fine and hurting nobody, and because no other person is affected most of the time, they see no harm. In reality - the harm sits inside you. It sits in your doubt, it sits in your regret, and it never leaves you until you start deciding to oust it in some way.
Change Your Habits
It can be achieved, and those feelings that you are being sent by your angels will begin to subside. There isn’t much you are able to do about them for now, until you begin to see where it is you are making really unhelpful decisions and start to turn it all around. You have much more strength than you give yourself credit for, so you should take that into consideration when you are turning habits that aren’t healthy into new ways of living.
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