Not Up for Debate

 Not Up for Debate

Not Up for Debate

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You love to question everything. If you feel something isn’t right or fair, you are straight in there with your opinion, perhaps even a little knowledge to help sway the thoughts or decisions of others so that an outcome works in your favor. The tenderness with which you treat hot topics leaves a sweet taste in the mouths of others, so much so that you could talk your way out of a parking ticket, or any other very sticky moment in time. What a gift to have, and how fun to be able to share your voice to the point where others fruitfully listen and get drawn in by your persuasive approach to many an issue.

Nothing Lasts Forever

Well, we all know that nothing is destined to last forever, don’t we? Even good things fade away sometimes, and reveal harder, darker, even stranger times. We are not destined to sit in one place forever, and that includes emotionally. After all, what lessons would we learn if things were either constantly brilliant, or constantly appalling? Not much, because it would get boring, and it would definitely affect our resilience levels. We need just the right amount of good and bad to keep our heads bobbing above water, and seeing the beauty in them moments that should be cherished. Those harder times reveal our true strength that we apply, helping sail us through those storms.

What happens if people stop buying what you have to say on a regular, very regular, basis? Your angels are watching remember, and they see you being very persuasive as usual, only the audience seem to be turning on you. Do you get that feeling? As though people are beginning to feel frosty and give you less and less time? It is almost as if that same old story you are regurgitating is simmering away, and the truth or charm behind it is evaporating into thin air, never to be seen again. What is it about your character that is holding people back from believing you, or listening intently as they usually would?

The Charms Wears Off

If you want to know why this is all happening, you are going to have to do some digging. It is as if your persona is being eroded, and it just isn’t up for debate. Could it be that you have recently been touched by an angel? Have you felt a celestial energy brush by your arm, leading you to wonder what the wider message is, and how it feels as though a warning has washed over you? If so, you have been graced by the immortal presence of your heavenly guides and have been handed a warning that your personality is wearing thin on others.

Knowing this, it can be difficult to know what to do to make it right again. You want people to love and respect you, but that’s difficult to do when they just no longer have the time to listen to your tales, woes and jokes. It is almost as if you are receiving a collective eye roll, or that you are the star of the show, but people are leaving their seats early to get home. It can be horrid for your confidence, and your angels are aware of this. Just as you feel you have many people on your side, loving you and everything you say or do, people are now seeing you as almost attention seeking.

Allow Others A Chance to Shine

What happens next is indeed up to you. You can either carry on the way you are and lose even more people around you. This may result in you being alone, being completely cut off from the type of ‘fan base’ that you’re used to. The alternative is to rein it in a little. Just creep your volume down a few notches. Feel the heaviness of your personality and allude to the idea that it can be too much for people at the time. Allowing others, a moment to make a joke or tell a story can mean you are letting others into your circle in a more kind and compassionate manner. Is this something you can do? Perhaps this is your lesson to learn right now.

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