Troubled Talks with a Parent
When you dream of a conversation, whether you are in it or not, you may notice an air of authority within it, especially that of a parental figure. Parents are very good at making us feel as though we are eight years old all over again, and if the mood catches them right, they can really bring our mood down with the weight of their worries or orders. When you dream of a conversation that involves a parent, you are being warned by your angels of troubled talks ahead with them. This may be something that particularly rattles you, but equally the warning could work in your favor in some respects.
Parents Don't See Us as Growing Up
When a parent has an issue, they can if they want to let the entire world know that is bothering them. Coming to you personally is likely to make you feel singled out in some way, and when parents do that, they can really get under our skin. It's as if we haven't aged at all, and their constant demands, moans or groans are exactly the same as they were when we were young and helpless. The difference is, we are not young nor helpless anymore, and it would probably do us the world of good to remember that.
We will always be children to our parents, so when we have a conversation with either one of them in a dream, it is a surprise to know that you can talk normally and productively, with no arguments or belittling comments toward you. Your angels want to prove to you that this is possible but will continue to warn you of the troubled talks you get yourself into with them, and how this is likely to continue for the foreseeable future. No, it isn't the nicest process, but perhaps in some way, you are growing out of what they built for you and are struggling to break free.
A Stressful Warning
What do you make of all this? How can someone who just wants to get a peaceful night's sleep suddenly be so attached to the warning of drama with your parents? As angels like to teach us that warnings are for our own good, it still won't stop the pain of having to experience what is to come, and if you aren't careful, this could be an ongoing battle that refuses to rest. When you see a parent in a dream who you are arguing with, the conversation is going to play out very similarly in real life, so this is something you will want to prepare for.
Yes, it does cause stress, and that is something you will most likely be avoiding, but you won't know. Dreams are like a window to the future, so when you wake up feeling that dreaded sensation in the pit of your stomach, it will be due to the knowledge that something is blocking your path of joy ahead, and that something, or rather someone, is either your mom or dad. Try to swallow the dire emotions that are rising and figure out quickly how you can intervene by creating softer conversation.
Bite Your Tongue
The trick to successfully exiting a stressful conversation with a parent is to bite your tongue. There are things you might want to say, or valid emotions you want to express, but ask yourself, are you really improving the situation, or are you making matters a whole lot worse? What have you got to offer to the table, and will your words lead to a productive outcome? You see, it isn't about winning, or coming out of a disagreement on top, it's about respecting yourself as an adult and not appearing to be the spoiled child who has to have the last word. Your parents may be surprised at your reaction, in a good way, but of course that doesn't take away the stress within you. Remember your angels are with you all the time and will help you through any troubles that head your way. Your parents mean well, as do any warnings your angels send, but unfortunately you must get through the storm to see the rainbow.
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