Being Held Back by Love
Love does crazy things to us, doesn't it? Our angels are all too aware of the power love can have over us, if we allow it. Some people cannot live without it in their lives, whilst others claim the only way, they know how to truly be themselves is to be loved. The biggest mistake to make is thinking you need anybody to love you in order for you to be whole, and your angels feel just as strongly about this. It is therefore not a surprise then when they warn you through dreams that you are being held back by love.
The heaviness of unrequited love can pull us to the ground sobbing, and there feels like no way back. Standing up once felt so easy, but now it is replaced by the need to lie down and stay down. Through all the pain and sorrow, there is the central emotion of 'nothing.' This creates a negative view of us, and is one of the worst places to be, let alone get stuck in. For you, it may have been the case for quite some time. As you try to stand, your legs buckle, and you give up altogether. This is the very reason angels know when the best time is to send out warning signs.
Emptiness Is with You
These warning signs are incredibly tough on us. They expose our insecurities at a time where we already feel somewhat exposed. The love we need for ourselves is gone, replaced by the feeling of being undesired and unwanted. You give whatever comes your way all that you have energy wise, so it's no surprise any dream that features an apparition is going to leave you ready to seize the problem and try to diminish its meaning.
When you feel this way – your angels want you to ask yourself one very important question. If something is holding you back, is it really true love? Their defense in such a question derives from the simple fact that love, in its purest form, is not supposed to hold you back from anything. Love is supposed to encourage, to help you gain clarity, to allow you to feel and appreciate and to mostly help you understand others. Can you do any of those things if someone out there is hurting you because of their lack of love, or lack of trying?
Dreams Can Come True - Eventually
Dreaming of an apparition is the warning you need to help you gain access to your angels. Their message was intentionally made for you in the first place, and so with this information you must find ways to treat yourself better and know that love does not exist fully if it is holding you back and stopping you from making your dreams come true. When you set out to turn your goals into a reality, you need to stop looking for the approval of others, because their approval or validation is not love, it is a form of control.
Love makes us do crazy things, and your life right now is not being complimented by your choice of love or lovers. You are a one-hundred-dollar bill trying to squeeze into a hole meant for a dime, and that is how this love is making you feel. Adventures you wish to seek and pursue have reigns of restriction around them. You are watching your life pass before your very eyes, and you cannot understand that you can take those reigns and go whichever way you want, but love, or your ill perceived view of love, is in the way.
Drive Away from Negativity
What comes next is up to you. This negative flow you are currently riding on is eventually going to grow tiresome for you, so you are going to have to change gears before you get that far. Love as it stands is not complete in your life, and whatever love you think you have, is actually only there to teach you what love is not. How you proceed is down to you, but it would be wise to listen to your angels, and see this dream filled apparition as the first step to realizing your worth, before it becomes far too late.
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